Monday, February 20, 2012

Relationships, Broken Hearts, Men, Women & Love

I have not had regular access to the internet and have been unable to post.  However,  I have been writing a lot and have three new entries to share. I will be putting them up in the next couple of weeks.  Enjoy


No matter where you live or what culture you were raised in, the majority of human beings deal with relationships, heartbreaks and love.  Being here and having the opportunity to live in a local community and date a host national has given me a different perspective on relationships, standards, gender roles, and love.  It has also brought to awareness a particular sense of gratitude for my own upbringing and freedom.  I want to apologize for writing so much about the oppression of women. I never planned to revolve my blog around this subject, but lately the stories I feel most inspired to share are just that. 

The words relationship, boyfriend, and girlfriend have a very different connotation here than they do in America.  Most will agree that in America when you are in a relationship it means that you are dating one person unless agreed upon otherwise. Communication is essential and trust is even a bigger. Cheating is looked down upon by society and is a likely cause to end a relationship.   Here it is very much the opposite. Cheating is a common practice and though people do not necessarily like it, they accept it.  I have spent a lot of time talking about this subject to both men and women (teenagers and adults).   The chance that your Senegalese boyfriend (muslim or catholic) is having or has had sex with another person while dating you in pretty darn high.  

Some of my male volunteer friends have had some interesting conversations with Senegalese men.  One friend told me that his tailor asked him why the volunteers (male) do not want to  “play” with the women here.  His quote “the women of village “A” want to play. You just tell me whom you want and I will help you.:  When explained to this person that he was in a relationship and was not interested, the man did not understand.  He explained how he was also in a relationship. This type of thinking is not uncommon.


In trying to understand why this is so accepted I talked with a good friend of mine.  She was born and raised in Sierra Leone, yet had the opportunity to live in America for much of her adult life. She explained that African men love their girlfriends and want to marry them however they commonly sleep with other people. It doesn’t mean they don’t love their girlfriends but before marriage they don’t see the necessity to remain loyal to one woman even if they have not had sex with her.  It is something she told me that she has learned to accept.  She also talked about the lack of effort made by a man once he has your commitment (sexual or not) And romantic gestures such as giving flowers or love letters are very unlikely.  Love here is reflected in action rather than emotions.  If you are a man and you love a woman and want to marry her you work hard to have money so you are able to support her and your future family.  Women show their love by working hard, being obedient, and domestic.    


 So you would think once people get married the sleeping around would stop.  Unfortunately, it does not.  In a polygamous society, such here, men use the excuse that they are looking for another wife as a means to justify their sleeping around. For Catholics this excuse is not accepted thus men who choose to have affairs do so much more discreetly. Either way the consequences for these types of actions mostly affect the women.

I have seen girlfriends and wives act out against this and the results have been discouraging.  My host sister went crazy when she found out her husband was talking to another women and tried to hit him. The result was that he beat her. My friend found out her husband was taking a second wife and spoke out to him only to be hit. A girlfriend found out her boyfriend was sleeping with other women, called him out but stayed with him anyways.
 In America a woman has the right to leave her husband if he is unfaithful to her.  Unfortunately women do not have the resources to pack up leave. They are dependent on their spouse for financial support.  Also women who do choose to leave and return to their father’s house are often times looked down upon.  Being a woman in this culture means putting up with whatever your husband does and if you don’t like it then you must find a way to deal with it. 

I can’t help but to admire a woman who has an unfaithful husband and is stuck in the situation.  She has really no choice but to carry on, take care of her children, and find a way to cope.  Emotions are not expressed here! Besides children, the only time you will see someone cry is at a funeral when they are mourning for the deceased.  They are taught from a very young age that repressing how you feel is the way you live.  The result is that women have very little self-esteem, refuse to stand up and talk, and do not complain.  I know from my conversations that there is not a lack of feeling. The women here do feel and they do get hurt and upset when someone wrongs them. They choose to ignore it, let it go and move on.  You may think this is healthy, but in my observations I have seem many women who turn all this hurt into anger.  They let it out on their children.  A good friend of mine is a perfect example of this.

She was the youngest daughter of 7 girls. Her father died when she was 13 and was then married off to someone twice her age. She is an extremely intelligent person and loved to study. This change ruined her life and after being married to this older man and having a child, he died. She was 19 when she moved back with her mother who had recently re-married.  Now with a child and no financial support and her mother’s new husband was quick to marry her again.  She had three more children and is treated poorly by her new mother and law. She does all the laundry, cooks all the meals, milks the cows, pounds the rice and every other task women do here. The difference is that no one helps, her husband gives her no money and spends most of his time taking his motorcycle to watch soccer games or to parties.  She never complains but after several conversations with her, my heart is full of sadness for her and her situation. I recently wrote a poem thanks to her inspiration. 

I will post the poem in my next post...stay tuned! 

32 comments:

  1. I met my ex Senegal husband on AOL I was 48 yrs old. We corresponded for 6mths before we met. During our talks I asked if he was looking for a green card & he told me he had one. When I met him at the airport He was 24!! I had fallen in love with him. He spent a week with me. The night before he left he said he wanted to marry me. I accepted. He went back to NJ & finished the semester. We married January 2000. After we married he said we had to fill the forms out for his green card!! I said "you told me you had one" he goes "I told you I had a student Visa" I just thought "whatever". My friends & family said he was using me. Little did I know until I read your blog that after marriage they still cheat. My first marriage of 23 yrs was like that I stayed because we had 2 kids. After we married in 2000 I wound up supporting him for 9 mths. He didn't want to find a job until he had a work permit . During that 9mth he signed a membership to the porn shop, volunteered for the Chamber of Commerce & exchanged e-mails with women he met from cruise ships. All bills were split down the middle. I never knew how much he got paid or the balance in his checking account. Then he said he would be sending his family $600/mth to help them. I didn't know he liked porn, if I knew that I never would of married him, if I knew his age I wouldn't of talked to him.He was very flirty & a cheater. I was married to a man like that for 23 yrs, why would I want to go thru that again? He said he would never do anything to hurt me. I left him after 2 yrs. He was sleeping w/ the girl who worked NEXT to my sister's husband, the chair right next to him! My sister's husband knew everything & told my sister & mom. They didn't know how to tell me. They had a 4 mth affair. I left his butt, but before I did I cussed him out & I pushed him down on the floor, handed him the phone & said "here's the phone so you can call the cops" & I walked out. I took off 3 days of work & moved all my stuff out. The apt was empty. When he said he didn't have any pics? He had a box that weighed about 10lbs with photo albums of HIS pics, all of him. I tried to find a lawyer to represent me for the divorce. They said no because he was a soccer coach & all of the lawyers either knew him or had kids on his team. I never felt so used. Even tho I left him after 2 yrs I didn't file for divorce until after the 3rd year. He received his MBA, I typed all his homework until the wee hours of the morning, use my car to get back & forth to school. He needed to write an essay to perform in his class. I was telling him about my best friend who got breast cancer & had to resort to smoking pot in her last days. What did he do? He said it was HIS friend!! I was so angry at him. He was never home between working at the gym, school & coaching soccer, stopped giving me affection, attention, was unhappy with my cooking, so he cooked. When I was in the hospital for 10 days as soon as we got home our phone rang. It was my friend asking him if he could come work because the person that was supposed to be working called in sick. He had the nerve to tell her he would be over there in 1/2 hr!! I couldn't believe he was going to leave me all doped up on pain medication hardly able to take care of myself for 8 hrs!! Anyway, just thought I would share my experience meeting & marrying a man from Senegal.

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    1. I'm in a relationship with a Senegalese man too. He's 30 and I'm 43. Im about to break up with him though otherwise I'm going to get even more hurt then I already am. He's already been married in the UK so has indefinite leave to remain. We've only been together for 4 months but he too is using me for a cheap roof over his head as rents are very expensive here in London and he doesn't earn a great deal of money. He always tells me he loves me and we've so far had a passionate sex life. Being a daft cow, if someone gives me good sex, I often mistake it for being loved.
      Some of the things he has done to me has been real low life behaviour. At first o thought he was just a bit cheeky but now I realise he just takes the piss in whatever way he can. He moved himself in without us ever having the conversation. He goes out with his senagolse friends at least 5 nights a week. I know for a fact his two main friends have loads of women on the go, yet he swore on his mums life as he always does that he wasn't like them and he didn't agree with the way they carry on. He never invites me along, infact he's never taken me anywhere since we've been together . He has stolen money off me on a few occasions and when he gets paid on a Friday he's usually skint again by Sunday and then ponces tobacco off me, expects me to feed him and lend him money to get to work. He even cashed in my travel card to get back the five pounds deposit.
      As yet I don't think he's cheated on me but it's definitely in the post. He doesn't have the obvious charisma his friends have but I know if the opportunity comes he will take it. Infact I think that very recently he may have started to cheat. Last week he came home at 5 am on a wed night. He told me he was at a staff party but I checked the travel history on his travel card and he was lying . When his lies are found out by me and I produce the evidence of his lie, he still sticks to his lie and never comes clean. Last week I spent a few nights away from home. He brought a girl round , they cooked and he washed all the bedding which is something he never does. My lodger told me the girl was there and still he denied it . He has seen me break down in tears many times because of the way he treats me and he just carries on without a thought of my feelings. I have never seen him express any emotion. What hurts most is he has loads of friends and they always come before me and I feel very lonely . I ended the relationship last night and he didn't show any sign of being upset . He's still staying with me until he finds somewhere else and it's now 2.30 am on a Thursday and still he's not back. I feel so hurt and lonely and it has made me feel worthless . The biggest lie of all is saying he loves me when it's not true.

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  3. I am currently married to a man from Senegal. When we met, I thought I found my soul mate. We did everything together. I knew he didn't have a green card when I met him but married him anyway because I love him. Once we got married he totally change no more outing, no more flowers, no compliments, We are barely intimate, he said it is because I do not respect him. He feel because he pays the bills, I am to submit to his will. I am a Christian and he is Muslim, I believe in submission to your husband, but its obvious that Mohammed does not love the mosaic like Jesus the church because my husband corresponds with women on fb likes its ok. When I ask him about this he said friends are ok. I try to explain that men just don't just want that type of friendship and his behavior is like a single man and not a married one. Once I have helped him obtain gis citizenship, I plan to leave so he can find a woman from his culture to marry

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    1. Omg, your story is just like mine.
      Married a guy from Senegal I met 3 years ago. Convinced I found my soul mate started a relation then he told me because of his Muslim religion we had to marry or end the relation. I didn't want to marry ever again after a bad 1st marriage but he kept assuring me that I was lucky to have met him and Not another senegal man who would just use me for money, for visa for everything. I met him in Africa and I travelled back and forth to Africa to be with him for 2 years spending copious amounts of money on flights, hotel, presents for him and money for his family. I did all this because sincerely I loved him and he was so loving to me.
      Then he said we cannot continue the long distance relationship so I should make him the visa travel documents which I did. He came to live in Europe, at first he couldn't find a job so Again I had to provide him with everything without moaning. Finally he got a job and the residence in Europe and suddenly his salary was his money and he would not contribute a dime to our living costs. He was just so greedy...horrible.. unemotional....love was not important anymore. He even had the cheek to tell me I didn't respect him when I was more than nice to him. My family kept telling me to get rid of him because his sole interest in living in Europe was to provide for his mother and family back in senegal while living with me scott free. When I asked him to leave he refused saying it was me who brought him to this country.....sorry no he basically didn't give me any choice and I believed he was sincere.
      My advise they don't lover us women...They only love our money and may I say use our finances to support their family back in senegal
      It's really sad and I'm still trying to come to terms with the deceit

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  5. Well geesh reading through these doesn't give to much hope does it? I met my husband now 5 years ago, we met when I was with a abusive man and he was with a gir who he thought liked him, cut to the chase we ended up dating after the girl stole all his money. We started dating and did everything together sound familiar? anyways now we are going on five years he as well asked me to marry him after a couple months of talking,ive never had reason to suspect him of cheating, simply because I work half the day and is home the rest of the night and he does the same when he gets off. So far everything is great the only thing I cant get past is he never wants to do anything fun!! Nothing , go fishing, swimming, an amusement park, nothing I can get this man to do Yet when I go out and do something fun with a friend he throws a fit, like I'm not gonna sit and waste the rest of my life sitting on the couch watching tv all the time, no , I'm a summer baby and at first he was to , now he don't like spnding any money on fun lol, its either save it for Africa trip or were not doing anything lol drives me nuts

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  6. My story is long, and I won't bore everyone with the details. But I too was charmed by a Senegalese man. I had known him prior to our relationship, and in fact was not attracted to him. A few years passed and we ran into each other and exchanged phone numbers. He called the next night. It was my birthday and he offered to come by and bring some Senegalese food. We had a good time, and since then he was calling me every night. In one of those conversations he said he wanted to talk with me in person about something very serious. I invited him over. He told me that he had to leave where he was and needed a place to stay. I let him stay with me even though I had a really small place. A relationship ensued. We talked a lot, and when I asked the general questions about marriage, children to told me that he was separated from an American woman who he has a son with. And he also said he had a daughter from a past relationship with a Senegalese woman. Turned out that in total 6 children (she was married before marrying him and had 3 children through that marriage. The husband died and he took responsibility for all the children, plus he had a young one with her) The American woman was not an issue because they really didn't get along at all. I witnessed that myself. And his son was so sweet. The wife is now deceased since 2 years. This guy lived with me for one year before I was able to get him a job. When he started getting steady money I told him he had to help with the rent. I only asked $100. p. mo and every single month he gave me hell to give me that money. He claimed he had to send it home to his wife. When his wife got wind he was living with me, she started working roots to destroy me and split us up. In the interium, he won a case and stood to collect one-hundred thousand. But the lawyer had other plans. He was trying to get all the money by having him sign power of attorney. He was smart enough to get me involved and I made sure that he was given his money. As soon as he got it he made moves to go to Senegal. I asked for him to leave some money and he only gave me $2000. and said when he returned he would give me more. He promised to return in a few months. He didn't return until 8 mos later and he only called me once in all that while. He bought and furnished a beautiful home for his wife and children. I'm not mad about that at all. But he came back to NY penniless asking if he could live with me. After a few months of working on me I finally said yes, but let him know it was only temporary. After about 6 mos he got up enough money to go to Senegal again. He did the same. When he came back I didn't let him stay with me again. He has epilepsy and I was able to get him disability, medicaid, and still helped him with all his administrative needs. He went to Senegal again, and this time it's been 18 mos. I really don't care anymore what he does, but don't you know he had the gall to call and ask if he could stay with me, and I said NO! He even promised to pay rent. I don't want it. He's still in Senegal and still collecting disability. I really want to contact the disability office and let them know he is no longer in the country. I'm so angry. Yes, charming, selfish, liar, cheater, and user. All of the above.

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  7. I also went through a similar experience. I'm Dutch American and lived with a Senegalese man for 7 years. All the same issues: never introduced me to friends; never wanted to go out. And lied to me for 7 years about everything. I felt guilty for not trusting him more. In January of this year I had enough and asked him to move out. It turns out he had been dating another woman while he was with me. And moved from my place to hers almost immediately. This is the 3rd financially independent woman he's hooking up with. We have and now she is paying his way... I contacted his first wife who told me exact same story. We're all conned. The man is simply a pathological liar, charming as can be, gentle and yoga teacher. But manipulating and calculating as can be. He's getting married later this year. I wish I could warn her, but she wouldn't believe me.

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  8. I was married with a Senegalese woman for 13 years. I had always been faithful and never cheated. I learned to cook, braid hair, polish nails etc to make her feel loved and happy. We were the perfect role model couple within the community. Many people were envious: women were jealous of she was treated with love, care, attention and faithfulness, and never an opportunity trying to seduce me: men were jealous but were hiding behind ego, selfishness , cultural and social pressure to say that I was "weak", "my wife was wearing the trousers" and that "I was scared of her". We were always together, except when I was at work. We were going out together, traveling together, doing everything together to such extend everybody was calling her my name and me by her name. You may thing I might be a foreigner but I am not. I am 100% from the same culture but just had the desire, love and courage to treat her with the care, attention and faithfulness thank persons, men or women deserve. I was hard working and had means to look after my family but this isn't about money but decent character and ability to treat anybody the way you would like to be treated.she was my best friend too.due to urgent circumstances I travelled to Europe. She cheated on me and got pregnant while telling every single day that she "loves" and "misses" me. The community took revenge on my behalf, insulting and bullying her whenever she stepped outside.of my house. She could no longer live around. She sold out everything I worked hard to achieve (house, private and commercial cars/vans) to relocate with the boyfriend. I never felt such pain in my heart but what goes around, always comes around. For the past 10 years, she has dearly paying the consequences of her betrayal. She got four children with that man, moving from house to house unable to pay rent, abandoned by her family, friends and the community, beaten, illtreated. She called an old friend of mine to beg him to ask me to forgive and help her. Sometimes, you never know and value what you got until you lose them.

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    your relationship or any other Case. Or WhatApp him on +2349060421250

    1) Love Spells
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    Contact this great man if you are having any problem for a lasting solution
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  15. i am here to give testimony on how this powerful spell caster called Dr Ilekhojie helped me to fix my relationship. i was heartbroken when my fiancee told me he is no longer interested in marrying me because he was having an affair with the other woman where he work. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help, that was when i read a review about the great work of Dr Ilekhojie, then i contacted him for help to get my lover back, he helped me cast a powerful (reconciliation love spell) and to my greatest surprise after 48 hours of doing the love spell my Fiancee came back on his knees begging me to forgive him We are now happily married and all thanks goes to Dr Ilekhojie Wonders for helping me save my relationship you can contact Dr Ilekhojie through his email address: gethelp05@gmail.com or WHATSAPP him on +2348147400259

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  16. i want to testify about a great spell caster that help me cast a spell that bring my husband back to me without any delay. I broke up with him with just little misunderstanding hoping we will get back shortly,but things was growing worse until i contacted Dr.Manbela who help me with his historical powers to bring him back, i have never believed in a spell caster until i come across him, it will be of great sin if i should go out from here without dropping the contact of this great spell caster, in case you need the help of this great spell caster you can contact him through his email: once you contact him all your problems will be over ,once again i say very big thanks to you sir for helping me to recover my husband back, and please sir keep your good work because people need your help and in their lives ,once more thank you Dr Manbela

    contact him via; Manbelaspelltemple1@gmail.com

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  17. I can't believe that just with a phone call i made to Dr. Mamudu , I got my ex back to me within 24 hours interval. I had read some stuff about Dr. Mamudu before i called him but i didn't know that all those stuff were so accurate until i got my ex back, After getting my ex back i taught it wise to share my testimony with every one on this website that Dr Mamudu is a real and powerful spell caster that rebuild any broken relationship or marriage with love spell. Do feel free to Contact Dr.Mamudu via email: ( Drmamudu47@gmail. com) OR whatsapp +2347061836063

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  18. My Husband left me and my kids, i was passing though pains, sorrow, heart broke, going crazy but god use Dr Sunny to restored happiness back in my life by getting my husband back. today with great joy and happiness. I came across a website that suggested that Dr Sunny can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he did a love spell for me. Two days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. In my heart i want to appreciate Dr Sunny for bringing back my lost husband within 48hours after the spell was cast by him. My husband is back to us. Once again thank you Dr.Sunny, You are truly a great man, I and my family are living together happily again.. He is true a man of  his word and he is here to help mankind.  You can reach him on his email address for any help you may need via ( solutioncentre911@gmail.com ) .

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  19. My Ex-boyfriend left me 7 weeks ago after, I tried ALMOST EVERYTHING to restore my relationship and I was disappointed. None was working out, A week later I saw Dr. Ilekhohjies website and after I contact Dr. Ilelhojie for help, everything automatically change, my sadness became joy, smile was all over my face, everything happened very FAST and the result was effective. Dr Ilekhojie is the ONLY spell caster who i had success with, my boyfriend called me and said he wanted us to come back and also want to marry me. he came back to me begging me to accept him back and this happened Due to the help of Dr. Unity. I Am so happy that I have my boyfriend back. Contact Dr. Unity now for an urgent and fast love spell to win your relationship back..
    Here’s his contact
    Call/WhatsApp: +2348147400259
    Email: gethelp05@gmail.com

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  20. Hello friends, I consider myself a lady with a good and caring heart by professtion i'm an Accountant. I have been married for more than 8 years with two children. My relationship with Peter, my husband at first, was sweet, romantic and later it turned into a nightmare, because my husband was cheating on me and was looking for a way to get a quick divorce. we broke up three months ago and I have beg him to come back home but not getting any progress. I loved my husband so much and I do not want to lose him to another lady, I could not have done anything to hurt him or make him feel bad about me ... I just wanted him to come home to love me forever. I explained my situation to a friend at work. My friend LUISA advised me to instead contact the help of a love spell caster called Dr AJAYI from the africa nation with a great power given to him by his ancestors, that he has powerful gifts charm to bring back love and trust in any broken marriage or broken relationship, i believed and i tried and it worked for me, i send an email to Dr AJAYI via his personal email contact (drajayi1990@gmail.com) or his whatsapp number +2347084887094 .. After a few municipalities had replied to my mail, Dr Ajayi told me that he could help me bring back my ex-love with some of my immediate love, I was very happy to find this man to help me, I followed all his instructions carefully, step by step. prayers and incantations that I made myself at home with candles light at night. DR AJAYI told me to do everything at home during the night. I did everything as indicated. it started working for me because a few hours later I received a call from my husband. I was so surprised and shocked that he stopped calling or texting me for 3 months. Now, I immediately perform a love prayer with my husband. Peter came home to apologize to me. I am so happy that the love affair works positively on my husband in two days on his return home. Right now, my husband and I are happier than ever before. I want to thank Dr.AJAYI, great man, for his exceptional talents. At first, I was afraid of doubt, but I try it and it works for my good. I sincerely recommend Dr.AJAYI to anyone looking to re-establish a lost love relationship or love spell in search of the true loving partner.

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  21. HOW I GOT MY EX HUSBAND BACK WITH THE HELP OF REAL AND EFFECTIVE SPELL FROM DR Osasu My name is Olivia Jayden, I never thought I will smile again, My husband left me with two kids for one year, All effort to bring him back failed I thought I'm not going to see him again not until I met a lady called Jesse who told me about a spell caster called Dr. Osasu , She gave me his email address and mobile number and I contacted him and he assured me that within 48hours my husband will come back to me, In less than 48hours my husband came back started begging for forgiveness saying it is the devils work, so I'm still surprise till now about this miracle,i couldn't conceive but as soon as the spell was cast,i became pregnant and gave birth to my third child,if you need any assistance from him you can contact him via:email: drosasu25@gmail.com Or WhatsApp or call him now:
    +2347064365391 . Dr.Osasu also cures: 1. HIV / AIDS 2. HERPES 1/2 3. CANCER 4. ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease) 5. Hepatitis B

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  22. I had struggle relationship with my husband in the past which led to divorce with my first husband. After i and my ex husband got divorced, i had another chance to re-marry again and just 5 years of my second marriage there was another divorce which almost killed me emotionally. I stayed for another two years been unmarried and a single mother. Honestly I wasn't really happy it because every woman need a man in her life, there was a time i saw my first husbands photo and i realized how much i loved him and have missed him. I tried to get to him but i was told that he moved on with his life and we may never been together again. I wept bitterly that night thinking i have lost the man that i have had so much love for. I asked for advise on what to do and a friend of mine gave me a contact of Osasu Solution Temple, i consulted him and to his very best with his powerful spells he helped me with a Reunion Marriage Love Spell to returned my ex husband back to me, in just 9 days i had enchanter with a spiritual reunion prayers with priest Osasu everything turn around for good in my life, I am now happily living with my first husband again and sort out the divorce issues. with the help of Osasu temple, his a man of wisdom and care. Thanks and i appreciate all the help you have rendered to get my ex husband back into my life again. I testify here today that Osasu temple is powerful it can resolve all problem in a broken relationship with love once. contact him for solutions to any kind of relationship problem. Email....(drosasu25@gmail.com) You can also call him or add him on WhatsApp +2347064365391

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  23. Am here to say a big thank you to Dr Sam for his great powerful love spell and his great spirits for saving my relationship. No one would have believe that I and my ex will ever come back together again lovers. But this great spell caster united us in just 48 hours. Dr Sam is truly a real and honest online spell caster. Contact him now on: okokakspellhome@gmail.com or whatsApp him +2349060421250 and he will help you solve all your problem

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  24. I feel very happy to share my great and wonderful testimony with everyone on this site..: I was married for 4 years to my husband and all of a sudden another woman came into the picture he started hating me and he was abusive.but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost.... He filed for divorce and my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do, he moved out of the house and abandoned me and the kids... my very close friend told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster so i decided to try it. although i didn't believe in all those things then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2 days, my husband came back and was pleading that he had realized his mistakes I just couldn't believe it, anyway we are back together now and we are happy in case anyone needs help here is his email address; Account
    doctorirekenagba@gmail.com His spells is for a better life OR call his number
    +2347059630655 or contact him on WHATSAPP

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  25. I feel very happy to share my great and wonderful testimony with everyone on this site..: I was married for 4 years to my husband and all of a sudden another woman came into the picture he started hating me and he was abusive.but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost.... He filed for divorce and my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do, he moved out of the house and abandoned me and the kids... my very close friend told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster so i decided to try it. although i didn't believe in all those things then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2 days, my husband came back and was pleading that he had realized his mistakes I just couldn't believe it, anyway we are back together now and we are happy in case anyone needs help here is his email address; Account
    doctorirekenagba@gmail.com His spells is for a better life OR call his number
    +2347059630655 or contact him on WHATSAPP

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